Rosie O’Donnell: hold Robin Roberts responsible for Chris Brown’s freakout

Rosie O'Donnell
Chris Brown currently has the number one album on the Billboard Hot 200. He’s not doing as well on the iTunes charts, where his CD is at number 79, but I think it’s safe to assume that his career has recovered despite the fact that he choked, bit, punched and left Rihanna for dead about two years ago and still speaks about it as if he was the victim of some negative event that happened to him. Still, radio hostess Rosie O’Donnell thinks that Brown is “held to a different standard,” and that it has to do with his race. She also said Robin Roberts should question whether she’s responsible for Brown freaking out and throwing a chair through a window after she asked him about his abusive past during an interview on Good Morning America two weeks ago.

Rosie: I can name 25 stars who trash dressing rooms, who trash hotel rooms. I just don’t know why this kid seems to be held to a different standard than anyone else.

Producer: Is there a racist thing here?

Rosie: I totally think there is. I also think that’s why he felt he was safer with Robin Roberts.

Producer: Is it because he’s a rapper? [sic] I’m thinking of Kanye West… Black rappers are not allowed to be angry and then recover from it.

Rosie: I do think that there is a societal paradigm in which you have to be an angel or a thug if you’re a black male… Tupac Shakur there’s a whole series of books written on the fact that he struggled between his image of a poetic angel or a drug dealing thug.

I actually felt bad for Chris Brown during that interview, and I felt mildly angry at Robin Roberts. I wish I had her email… I feel like going ‘can you take a look at this again and see if maybe you find in any way your responsibility in this at all?’

The next day she’s like ‘We invited him to come back, but he said no.’

I would not blame him. Part of me wanted to take a chair and throw it through The View after all that happened.

[From Rosie’s show, video below, via Popeater]

First of all, how stupid are Rosie and this producer woman for calling Chris Brown a rapper? He’s an R&B singer and he does pop music. I’ve never heard him rap up to this point, but I googled it and he does have a recent song with Lil Wayne and Busta Rhymes where he attempts to rap. Still, that’s not what he’s known for at all. That’s like calling Usher a rapper.

Second, I think it’s safe to assume that Rosie identifies with Chris because she has anger issues too. That’s all I can take away from this. I’m not saying she’s physically abusive, we’ve never heard that about her, but I would bet that she’s flown off the handle in her day.

It ridiculous to say that the pressure is coming down on Chris Brown because he’s black. First of all, the kids’ career isn’t suffering at all and he got to go on Dancing With The Stars, also on ABC, after he trashed their GMA studio. People are still questioning Chris because he keeps acting like a little bitch and refusing to take responsibility for his actions. If he never would have thrown that chair through the window we wouldn’t be talking about him, but the dude did it and he ripped off his shirt and ran around outside like Bruce Banner.

Also, how can Rosie ask Robin Roberts to take responsibility for Chris freaking out and throwing things like a bad toddler? Roberts very gently asked him about what happened with Rihanna, and her questions were approved ahead of time. Roberts wasn’t accusatory at all, (you can watch that interview here) and it was a very typical interview about a high profile incident but somehow Brown couldn’t hack it and he freaked out. How is that Roberts’ fault in any way whatsoever? This just goes to show Rosie’s line of thinking. If someone gets angry, it’s the other persons fault for “provoking” them, and when people think it’s inappropriate when someone freaks out and breaks things they’re somehow biased against that person. It definitely sounds like she identifies with Brown.

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  1. Quest says:

    “I will take responsibility for my dog’s poo and no other dog’s poo…I will clean up my dog’s poo and no one elses.”

    With that said -I don’t think Rosie would take responsiblity for any other dog’s poo and should no ask anyone else to do the sam.

    Let Chris handle his own business (and it is not because he is black, white, mixed) it is because he is a stupid asshole.

    There is no excuse for Chris’s radical, uncontrolable, shitty-ass behaviour and no one but him should take responsiblity for that (Rapper my ass)

  2. poodlemom says:

    I am thankful that Robin Roberts asked that slime some tough questions! Chris Brown has never seemed remorseful to me…and she did not let him off the hook! And what was ABC thinking when they let him perform on DWTS a few days later??? As for Rosie…whatever! She always gets headlines for saying something “bitchy”…and she always voices her opinions. Only this time…she is WRONG!

  3. Anne de Vries says:

    WHAT???

    How can you even compare trashing a dressingroom with beating and choking a person?

    And why on earth would anybody BUT CB be responsible for his ridiculous outbursts? That’s classic abuser talk. “You shouldn’t have made me so angry, it’s your fault that I did this”.

  4. Kaboom says:

    He’s a little shit and it doesn’t matter what color he is. End of story.

  5. Marjalane says:

    Reason #8756 why I hate Oprah Winfrey:

    She gave this fat ass, know-nothing, bitter bitch another talk show. “Oh boy, a daily dose of Rosie O’Donnell’s lunatic view of the world”. Personally, I think old Rosie has a lot more than just rage issues on her plate.

  6. brin says:

    Chris Brown needs to grow up and Rosie needs to shut up,imo.

  7. coexxi says:

    as brin said

  8. Darlene says:

    One wonders if Rosie ever lost her temper and hit someone. She seems to identify very strongly with Chris.

  9. JustJen says:

    Trashing a hotel or dressing room is quite a bit different than throwing a temper tantrum and breaking a window.

    I don’t care what color he is, Chris Brown is an abuser. That’s all he will ever be.

    Rosie may be right, color may have played some role but how can you argue with the results? He beat a woman and the public is calling him out. That’s cause for celebration.

    Also — don’t ever believe what Billboard says. It’s manipulated like crazy. Itunes is much more reliable because it’s strictly sales data….still can be manipulated, though. All his Billboard “popularity” tells me is that someone with some power is behind him, maybe because he’s under contract to produce a few more albums and his violent outbursts are still newsworthy.

  10. Just Sayin says:

    I feel so bad for all these idiot celebrities and I’m an idiot for getting sucked into these train wrecks. Rosie needs to keep her mouth shut and Chris needs to choke himself out. Cry me a river.

  11. JenJen says:

    Stirring up for attention for her new Oprah show.

  12. BeckyR says:

    Rosie is as big a loser as Chris Brown. They both stink!!

  13. Marie says:

    Can not stand that fucking pig looking thing. Wish she would disappear into oblivion.

  14. Ms. Candy says:

    The performance for DWTS was already placed along with GMA Interview as well.

    I can understand what people are upset about but I am starting to wonder when will people let this go because Rhianna herself wants this to go away she is the victim and has said this countless of times. She is now getting fiesty with people when they ask her that question because she is tired of the question herself-

    something is not right because he said they weren’t suppose to ask maybe his Management agreed without informing him.
    Either way the team he has around is not handling situations correctly at all.

    Something has to change- Chris needs to not let every little thing gets to him. He really needs to work on him better and not do it because everyone in the world wants him to do it but because he wants to do it.

    If does not change people will always continue to throw this in his face.

  15. dread pirate cuervo says:

    I’m not one to agree with Donald Trump, but he was right when he called Rosie a loser.

  16. Franny says:

    I feel like she is being deliberately controversial. Any rational human being would realize that there was no excuse for Chris Brown’s outburst and no one to be held accountable but him.

  17. kris says:

    LOL RACIST?!! liberals today i swear. so insane.

    lady, he beat the shit out of a girl. he caused damage to a dressing room. it has nothing to do with him being black or robin roberts. he has to take responsibility for his own actions and stop being a uncivilized bitch. the other 25 artists who trash hotel rooms or dressing rooms should be held to the same standard as this asshole.

  18. Elizabeth says:

    Rosie has 4 kids and her oldest (son) must be in his teens now. What would she say if he did this? I bet she would be all over him for getting angry and then throwing a chair at a window where someone could have been hurt.

  19. Mouse says:

    No, it ISN’T a race thing. I’m white and female, and I promise you no matter what my boss says to me, if I tossed a chair through the window of my office – it’s not going to end well. I would be fired and probably arrested and/or on psych hold. If anything, Chris got off easy.

  20. Anoneemouse says:

    That’s crap! Lindsay Lohan is just as hated and she is white. Quit using the race card – the jerk never expressed true remorse for what he did to Rhianna other than play the pity me card for what happened to his career.

  21. JenJen says:

    I have a problem with Robin coming back and saying he is invited back to the show anytime. Then ABC puts him on DWTS, sounds like they made her sell out. They should have pressed charges against this scumbag, not rewarded his behavior.

  22. loopygorilla says:

    shut up rosie and stop tanning yourself because clearly you have fried your brain cells.

    chris brown is a violent douche women basher.

    and to top it off, he is not repentant about what happened, clearly he thinks he is a god or something.

    and ive seen interviews go bad but no one ever breaks chairs and shit and get violent, clearly he has anger management problems.

    anybody who defends that sorta action as okay is a F**k wit, and thats rosie.

    shame on you rosie for defending a woman basher.

  23. Franny says:

    Um, Kris, I’m a die hard liberal, and I’m not insane, lol. Or at least I don’t think I am. She is using the race card to add depth to her argument. And it’s stupid. Race is not an issue when it comes to this young man’s behavior. His actions were vile, and his lack of remorse is even more disturbing, and people would feel disgusted by him if he were a Purple Man from Pluto. Get over it, Rosie.

  24. devilgirl says:

    Rosie O’Dummel is a disgusting, ignorant pig.

  25. wunderkindt says:

    Rosie often suffers from brainfartitus.

  26. Cheyenne says:

    Anybody over the age of five is responsible for his own behavior. I would assume that applies to Chris Brown as well.

  27. Melanie says:

    I thought Robin Roberts was easy on Chris Brown. And even if there are 25 other stars she can name off that top of her head, that doesn’t make it OK. If I knew
    who those people were, I would think they were brats throwing temper tantrums too. The reason the story got so much press was because the public already knows that this kind of thing fits his character.

  28. Marjalane says:

    @jenjen

    You know why they did that? Because there are idiot, shallow people in the world, (some of them even post here!) who think that because “he’s a good dancer”, and he has a hit record, all other aspects of this criminal’s personality should be, if not forgiven, then at least accepted. Sometimes people find their humanity and work like hell to resolve their “issues”. Chris Brown isn’t one of those people.

  29. mln76 says:

    I think it’s despicable of Rosie to ignore the abuse he perpetrated. How would she feel if it was one of her daughters left on the street in Rihanna’s condition? I was also disgusted by Sherry Shepard on the View who defended Brown. It doesn’t matter whatever singing talent he hasn’t changed his violent behavior and sooner or later people are going to see just how wrong they were in defending him.

  30. annie says:

    Chris Brown needs to punch Rosie to shut her up

  31. Crash2GO2 says:

    @Ms. Candy: “If does not change people will always continue to throw this in his face. ”

    As well they should.

  32. JenJen says:

    @Marjalane- that’s true because this is his best selling CD yet. Sad what the youth of the future is encouraged to like.

    Also when James Brown’s daughter was asked who should play him the only answers she could find were Usher (who is o.k.) or Chris Brown. The lack of talent being promoted by the powers that be, allow this to happen to make more money. There has got to be other talented performers not given a chance nowadays for some reason.

  33. Jaded says:

    @Franny, I totally agree. Rosie’s claim to fame is always taking the more controversial side of things, even if it enrages people, because that’s her schtick, getting people’s hackles up. If she were truly a good interviewer, she wouldn’t shove opinions in viewers’ faces, she would engage in an educated discussion of issues. She’s nothing but a fame-whore who by some strange set of circumstances is acceptable at Oprah’s network. Which I refuse to watch.

  34. Jayna says:

    Chris is a pop star/dancer. He’s not a rapper; though, he looked like it with all those tatoos he’s now sporting. Robin went a little further in the questioning but it was because he album is about forgiving his enemies? Who are his enemies? LOL The people who were disgusted by him pounding away on Rhianna’s face. No. Rockers partying away in a hotel room and trashing it and paying for it is far different than being at a network to perform and leaving with your shirt off after throwing a chair through a window in anger. Rosie does him no service by making excuses for him, instead of urging him to seek help for his RAGE issues.

    And I was glad his career wasn’t destroyed. He is young and deserved a second chance. But this inappropriate rage shows he still has major issues.

  35. kmn says:

    @ Franny I agree. Maybe she’s trying to drum up some publicity for her show?

    Regardless of what her motivation was, I’m pretty surprised she would say those things…I mean seriously? To say that Robin Roberts should feel bad about what happened??? She sounds a little cray cray.

  36. bored says:

    Oh Rosie. Come on. You don’t get a pass for domestic violence because you are black and subject to potential racism. This is horribly unsupportive of women in that community who are experiencing violence (and all women, really.) Is the message, then, to be silent to avoid what Rosie thinks is excessive consequences to the abuser?

  37. ordinarygirl86 says:

    Is it me or is Rosie quite the asshole these days?

    It all started when she had that big public feud with Trump…and Star…and Barbra (I think)…now this? Identifying with the abuser? WTF

  38. meg says:

    Oh Rosie, You’re a moron. You have always been a moron. Have another cupcake & STFU, sweetie.

  39. lucy2 says:

    I agree she seems to be looking for controversy and publicity. Either that or she’s just nuts – why blame the journalist, who he agreed to talk to, for him freaking out like a baby and throwing a chair through a window?
    I think people will let it go when he grows up and stops acting like a raging a-hole. Hasn’t happened yet.

  40. EdithP says:

    I wonder what Rosie thinks of Mel Gibson? Are we all being racist because we think he’s a pig, too?

    I haven’t liked Rosie since she talked about her “crush” on Tom Cruise and it was all just made up so we’d think she was hetero. Like anyone cared. She is awful.

  41. Jules says:

    OMG–please could someone find some pictures of Chris Brown without his mouth gaping open or tongue hanging out. I can’t stand it any more!! LOL

  42. GeekChic says:

    Compare the public’s reaction to Chris Brown and their reaction to Charlie Sheen. Brown did something disgusting, yes, and is a shit, no doubt, and was treated accordingly. He did the rounds of shows where he tried to apologize (and failed) and tried to seem like he regretted his actions.

    Sheen, it could be argued, is even worse than Brown. He has multiple incidences of violence to women (among all of the other things, he shot Kelly Preston — why does no one ever bring that up?) and he let a dog starve to death. He has never once even tried to seem remorseful for his actions or even admitted he did something wrong. Yet people are paying tons of money to go see this asshole give the same, tired, narcissistic rants.

    Why? Why is Sheen cool but Brown an asshole? If Sheen had darker skin would people still find him amusing, or would they think he was a thug? I don’t know the answer, I’m only posing the question. Both men are pieces of shit, but the public has treated them very differently.

  43. Brittany says:

    I dunno, I’m still trying to figure out why Charlie Sheen gets a pass and Chris doesn’t. Charlie shot a woman and has used violence on other occasions…

  44. helen says:

    How racist of Rosie to suggest that Chris Brown is “a rapper”. Nor all black male music performers are rappers, now are they?

    And stop saying Charlie Sheen got a pass. he didn’t get a pass. Yes, people are going to his show, but then apparently people are still buying Brown’s music.

  45. Tia says:

    Chris Brown is a complete moron. Robin Roberts is hot and talented.. Rosie is trying to get things started for her new show.. nothing less than any other celeb out there starting a new project.. but lay off Robin, the real issue is with Ghetto, lame, immature Chris.

  46. devilgirl says:

    From who does Charlie Sheen get a pass? Both he and Chris Brown are reviled by normal people, and the way I see it Brown gets more of a pass from people than Sheen does. The woman beater isn’t suffering, is he? His career seems to be just fine, which signifies to me he is getting more than a pass.

  47. k says:

    I think it is true that many celebrities get away with equally or worse behavior.

    That said, it is not a reason to NOT hold Brown accountable.

  48. JustBe says:

    I agree with GeekChic and others who question the different treatment of Chris Brown vs. Charlie Sheen. They’re both assholes who have been abusive to women, but one has a very long history of violent, abusive behavior to every female that has gotten close to him, while another physically assaulted one woman.

    One abuser was publicly shamed, charged and arrested for his single incident.
    The other has never been in danger of significant legal or financial consequences for shooting, choking, attempting to stab, assaulting, demeaning, denigrating every woman in his life. In fact, after it was publicly discussed that he was having cocaine-fueled parties with prostitutes at the home that he shared with his young children, the popularity of his TV program sky-rocketed. His insane rants and behavior got worse. Yes, he was eventually fired from his TV program, but then asked back, he’s got sold out shows around the country for people to listen to his rants and his twisted logic and aphorisms (i.e. ‘tiger blood’ and ‘winning’) are now a part of the everyday vernacular.

    One asshat is labeled as ‘always guilty’, the other as ‘just a regular guy’. No TV reporter has asked any hard questions to Sheen about the violence he has perpetrated (I have to admit that I don’t watch his interviews, but I assume that any hardball interview would have been highly discussed).

    So yeah, there’s a difference, but why?

  49. Amityvillelives says:

    Its a really great way to protest that you’re not violent. Throw a chair. Great….

  50. original kate says:

    rosie, as always, needs to sit down and shut up.

  51. Kim says:

    Plleeaaassee! who cares the color of his skin – he beat the crap out of a woman!
    He is scum regardless of what race he is! Rosie is spewing her stupid fugly mouth as usual.

  52. Franny says:

    I don’t know anyone in my circle…and I run with an intelligent, diverse crowd…that believes Sheen’s behavior is any less deplorable than Brown’s. They are both vile men, and anyone with two brain cells can see that. There are people watching Sheen’s shows and people buying Brown’s records. Who are they? They are people who are fixated on the “celebrity”, and not the cowardly human being behind the fame and fortune.

  53. Anonymous says:

    It seems that we are living in a world of hate. People seem to forget the word forgives, but to be honest, Chris Brown does not need to beg for anyone here who is judging him to ask for his forgivenes. Chris Brown can only ask for God’s forgiveness, and Chris Brown has to learn to Forgive himself, that’s the only way h can move on, because Rihanna has forgiven Chris Brown but no people are angry because she forgave him and she even thinks that he should be allowed to continue with his career. The funny thing is Chris Brown is still and living his dream every single day, I hope one day him and Rihanna can both be able to forgive each other, because at the end of the day Chris Brown does not need anyone’s approval expect from the true people who know him and love him regardless

  54. Madam U says:

    @GeekChic my sentiments exactly. Very well said

  55. guilty pleasures says:

    Wow, it is so nice to know that my fave entertainment site (along with dlisted of course) is chock full of perfect people.
    I know I have NEVER made a misstep, NEVER done anything that would cause pain, shame or embarrassment. I have NEVER associated with anyone who has erred, especially as a young person. And I could NEVER forgive human stumblings.
    Chris Brown messed up big time, he paid big time, he still has a great deal of maturation to gain, but really people, do you think it is up to your cowardly recriminations to completely destroy his life?
    So many of us have come through fire to be better people, to learn and walk a straighter path.
    Give the man a break, he has paid!!!
    Let he who is without sin…

  56. TXCinderella says:

    God, why won’t this woman just go away? I used to think Rosie was funny, but now I can’t stand her. She’s become a grumpy old fart.

  57. Leek says:

    Trump said it best, Rosie is a loser. Does she teach her children that they need not be held accountable for their own actions and words? What a shame.

  58. Catherine says:

    He can’t blame his behavior on a bad childhood forever. Maybe he should consider growing up and learning a little self control one of these days. I don’t agree with Rosie but I do think the media is all about the drama and RR should have left his interview about the music and moving on instead of brining up the past drama.

  59. Tia C says:

    @ Leek – That was my first thought in reading this post – Trump was right. Although at the time he said it, I thought it was harsh. Now, I would tend to agree.

    Rosie’s either stupider than I thought or just plain crazy. Probably the latter. Like other folks have pointed out above, Robin Roberts went easy on Chris Brown. I saw the interview and I thought she was very gentle, not pushy and asked the sensitive questions delicately. He’s just an idiot whose sole desire that morning was to promote his latest craptastic CD. How is this thing #1, btw? I used to like his music, but not this CD – it sucks.

  60. anonymous says:

    Most of the people on this site if not all did not see the interview and all they are doing is bandwagoning. I saw the interview and Rosie O’Donnell is so right. What Robin Roberts was doing was serving up the “Angry Black Man” stereo type to her white conservative audience, it was see this is the type of people these people are, she had two or more chances to drop the issue and give Chris Brown the respect he deserved being a guest on her show,but no like a dog with a bone she kept pushing the issue about an incident that happened two years ago treating it like as if it happened yesterday. more than three times Chris Brown told her that his prime reason for being there was to promote his album after the first question she should have let it go and changed the subject but Robin Roberts was looking for notoriety and she got it, I have not watched
    good Morning America since, Robin Roberts does not fool me she is not a good person as she pretends to be. Robin Roberts should know the angry black man is her, brother, uncle,nephews, male cousins,nephews who are always stopped for driving while black.

  61. guilty pleasures says:

    @anonymous
    Well said.

  62. C-DUB says:

    The whole thing was that he KNEW they were going to ask those questions. I know my girl Robin Roberts wouldn’t just put him on blast like that. CB needs to go away for a few years. Go to college, get a degree, and grow up!

  63. lucy2 says:

    No one here needs to destroy his life, he’s doing that quite well on his own.

    Agree with helen – legally Charlie may have gotten away with more, but in the court of public opinion, I think they’re on pretty equal footing.

    anonymous – I don’t think it matters WHAT Robin said to him, he is an adult and needs to be in control of his emotions and his own body – that includes not throwing a chair through a window and endangering people below. It’s time to stop passing the blame, people are responsible for their own actions.

  64. truetalk says:

    it’s Rosie so totally not shocking,plus we wouldn’t be talking about her now if she had not said something like that.

  65. Jules says:

    The outrage against Chris Brown is greater than Charlie Sheen because Brown’s beating victim had millions of fans of her own. Rihanna is not a no-name porn star or wife that no one has ever heard of. Not saying one type of victim is more important than the other in reality, but people do tend to value celebrities (Rihanna) more. All of you crying racism should be happy that people have a lot more sympathy for the one black victim than for Charlie Sheen’s multiple white victims. Wouldn’t you normally be complaining if it was the other way around?

  66. Ruffian9 says:

    Rosie you’re a f**king idiot.

  67. Ruffian9 says:

    anonymous, your baiting isn’t working.

  68. Hakura says:

    Why does everyone have to play the ‘race card’? That had *nothing* to do with anything…

    @Anne de Vries – Yeah, the lovely ‘Look what you made me do!’ mentality.

    Rosie & Jodie Foster should throw a party. -_- That’d be one hell of a guest list.

    @GeekChic“Sheen, it could be argued, is even worse than Brown. He has multiple incidences of violence to women (among all of the other things, he shot Kelly Preston — why does no one ever bring that up?) and he let a dog starve to death. He has never once even tried to seem remorseful for his actions or even admitted he did something wrong. Yet people are paying tons of money to go see this asshole give the same, tired, narcissistic rants.”

    Ugh. Don’t lump us all in on that statement… I dont’ tolerate such bullshit behavior from ANYone. Mel Gibson is a fucktard, Chris Brown is a little shit, & Charlie Sheen is the epitome of a douchelord. I can’t stand ANY of them, & they’ll never see so much as a penny of my money. PERIOD. (Not even though magazines that have him on the cover. I REFUSE outright.)

    @Guilty Pleasures“Chris Brown messed up big time, he paid big time, he still has a great deal of maturation to gain, but really people, do you think it is up to your cowardly recriminations to completely destroy his life?”

    I’m not doing *anything* but exercising my right to choose who’s career I support, & who’s I don’t. I’m not going out of my way to hurt his career, but I’m sure as hell not going to help it any. Personally, I don’t think he *did* pay big time. And if his life ends up destroyed, it will be his own fault, for being unable to control his temper, something he obviously hasn’t gotten under control.

  69. audrey says:

    Celebitchy, I really appreciate you handling this topic…you are practical and empathetic and I just think it’s amazing. Keep being awesome and sharing your (always thoughtful and engaging) perspectives!

  70. Keira19 says:

    Rosie kind of looks like a wife beater herself; so it makes sense she would defend someone who actually is one.

  71. lady_marmolade says:

    lmfao she does look like one, doesn’t she?

  72. B says:

    @ Rosie & @Anonymous, get real. It’s not a race thing. The dude lost his (faux) cool & endangered people who were potential victims as a result of his mantrum. HE IS NOT THE VICTIM.

    He’s an idiot, anger-management-abuser-A-hole who is clearly not changing. Healthy & semi-heathy people can handle intensive interviews & briging up the past without destroying things & hurting/potentially hurting others.

  73. Jamie says:

    Chris Brown gave Robin Roberts permission to ask the questions she did and then he freaked out when she actually asked them. Take some damn responsiblity!