After yesterday’s post about Rihanna “giving thanks” to Chris Brown in Berlin over the Thanksgiving holiday, I was prepared to give up on her. I’m still heading in that direction. However, Rihanna has upped the ante by posting a photo of Chris Brown in bed to her Twitter account with the following caption: “Dis ni**a…….” At least, we can safely assume that this is Chris because, who ever this dude is, he’s got the same tattoos, and his butt is hanging out of his pants. It’s certainly not Justin Bieber, so it’s gotta be Chris Brown.
Rihanna just doesn’t care anymore, does she? Girl is defiantly thumbing her nose to all those who suggest she not date her abuser. She and Chris are both insisting (through their “music”) that their relationship is “Nobodies Business,” but Rihanna clearly has no problems with getting teary on Oprah for all to see. But yeah, I get it. She’s entirely “unapologetic” until he hits her again. Oh, and both Chris Brown and Drake were cleared of criminal charges in connection to their NYC club brawl from last year. Because consequences would just be too much to ask for in Breezy’s world.
Here are a few photos of Rihanna performing in London on 11/19 as part of her crazy-ass 777 tour. She looking classy as always.
Photos courtesy of Twitter and Fame/Flynet
No words. 🙁
Vile.
two high class low lives
Money does not equate to “high class”!
ooh contrast…I see what you did there
Yeah, low class high lives probably would’ve been more appropriate. They’re definitely living the high life, and they are completely devoid of class.
They are both as toxic as each other which they mistake as passion.
Unfortunately, you’re exactly right. And this time when she tries to leave he’s going to be *really* mad….
Come on, we are the “immature society” and it’s not our business 😉
Nope, she doesn’t care. Good luck to her, I don’t think they’ll last in any traditional sense but maybe she’s lucky enough Brown won’t risk the damage to his career by trying to kill her ever again.
It’s time for everyone to move on from this train wreck.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: It is SO hard to break the cycle, so the rules of “normal” relationships just don’t apply and hating on her won’t help her get out.
I’m still rooting for her to survive this relationship and get some serious therapy.
I’ma let you finish in a minute.. but i’ma hate on this beyotch, who’s a complete and utter disgrace to all mammals. its moments like this i wish i was an amoeba…no lichen, an amoeba is still too close a species to that dumb heifer…i apologize to all heifers, but i just can’t with this hoe. Apologies to all hoes, escorts and courtesans.
HA! Vurrry good!
Can you please leave this girl alone. Like she said its nobodies business.
When you make your business commercial, it’s no longer “Nobody’s business”.
could you stop trying to put an educated gloss on chris and rihanna’s dumb single..it’s not ‘nobody’s business’… it’s nobodies bidness
Maybe so, but it’s a massive kick in the teeth for any of us who have been abused or have known family/friends who have been abused.
I volunteer at a shelter each week and have been part of a campaign that allows partners who have reason to believe their significant other has been violent before, to be granted access to any criminal records (google Clare’s law).
Whenever a public figure has ever come out as a victim of domestic abuse, you can’t imagine the morale boost some people get from it (granted, not everyone, but some).
It’s sickening watching Rihanna go back to that PoS, and It’s a crying shame that (for whatever reason) she doesn’t have the sense to get out of there and speak out against domestic abusers.
Now, it may not be anybody’s business, but I’d be willing to bet that C.B will almost certainly lose it again and who’s going to hospitalised? Rihanna.
Did anyone else hear about the Twitter row C.B got into with a comedienne? What a tw*t.
the thing for me is that when a criminal is free it’s everybody business.
Is it nobody’s business when she’s found unconscious and bloody in some abandoned car somewhere and it makes the headlines – again?
She perhaps doesn’t deserve the public’s concern, but don’t blame people for being concerned for her anyway – it’s human nature to not want to see somebody pummeled by a violent thug, even if they’re stupid enough to court disaster.
I think domestic abuse victims should not take it as such an insult as much as I don’t think people bring up her being any sort of role model. She’s an entertainer famewhore. period. she was viciously attaked but if she chooses to go back to him, so be it. I’ve seen other posters speculate that they had a volatile relationship which I could totally see. Not saying that she deserved it, etc…
that being said, she is such an a-hole and she really is buying her own hype (goes for both of them) I am starting to think she could go down the lohan path…
What I don’t understand with ri ri is why she would go back to him. Most women stay in abusive relationships due to children and lack of financial means. She has none of these worries. Yet she goes back. Either she is just a fool and hopes he will change or she was just as aggressive in the relationship. It will happen again.
my thoughts exactly. i just don’t get it. she has the emotional and financial support to leave, yet she chooses to stay. it does make me wonder if she is just a vicious and likes the roller coaster ride. her family has spoken out about how much they like him and i think i remember something being said that she was just as violent??? not that it makes it ok for him to beat her, but maybe that is what is normal to her. it seems to me she abuses herself 🙁
Delusion is rife in some people. She’s not a grownup in the smarts department.
Also, when she was not seeing him, no guy would come near her. She went on vacations by herself and sat around saying how bored she was. So, for somebody with such little self esteem, getting back with a violent thug that wants her is “better” than being alone and bored. Since nobody else wants to touch that hot button mess with a ten-foot pole. If somebody else actually wanted to embroil themselves in this mess, they’d get hit with a bottle over the head by Brown the Chickenshit Aho.
@gg: Drake said that he wanted a serious relationship with RiRi, but she only wanted something sexual and that´s how it ended. Why not chose him, better musician and nicer. She is gorgeous and there are men who are attracted to bad girls, I doubt she goes back to Brown because there are no other guys who are interested in her.
She may have financial freedom but this reeks of emotional dependence and that’s a tie just as strong as to depend on your abuser financially.
Because we say we stay for the kids, money, out of fear, embarrassment, etc., but that’s not why we stay. We stay because it’s a sickness that affects both people. A sick obsession, Stockholm syndrome without a hostage held by the point of a gun,at least not always, but rather a willing hostage. Rhianna followed Brown to Fla immed after the beating, and only split because of the bad publicity.When I told ppl it wasn’t over with them, they cursed me, called me names. I knew better, I’d lived that psychotic mess for a decade and a half.
as far as I see it, they get paid only to make music and perform. they’re performers and that’s it. the same reason why you shouldn’t judge them on their weight or hair color you shouldn’t judge them on this. I hate that she’s with him personally because I can relate to what she went through. however, she is her own person. she’s always been defiant and everyone should just get over it. she’s a lost cause. she’s gone. doing drugs, drinking all the time, having all these random acts of sexual content be spread around. maybe she knows how the music business really is. she probably thinks she’s not gonna be around forever so have fun and do what she wants now. she’s not in jail….yet. then again when is justice actually served when it comes to the famous? they’re back together. well see how long that is for. if it ends….it might end really really tragically.
But they post their personal crap all over the place, so why is it we are supposed to just ignore it when they are begging for us to watch?
Yeah… Women who go back to abusers are generally this smug and defiant afterwards. It’s like they think this affects **us** more than it does them and they don’t realize that in the end they are the ones ruining their own lives. Chris Brown doesn’t affect me personally. I don’t listen to his stuff, we’re not friends or family. She’s the one getting beat up and abused verbally and emotionally. You don’t want her to go through that. But whatever. She’ll see it one day.
I remember with my sister it was just like that. After she’d go back to her awful boyfriend she’d be just like this. Defiant. I was all, girl I worry about you. You’re the one ruining your life, not me. I don’t want to see you get hurt and waste your time with this POS. Eventually he broke up with her and she now sees how everyone had good intentions before. She saw this too late. Her best years are behind and she threw away a decade with this moron who just got married while she’s still alone. That gets her more than anything. But when she was with him she was very smug: “I’m happy. I’m with him. You don’t have anybody. We’ll get married one day. You will never get married.” She said this a lot and now? Everyone is married except her.
wow! you sound awful. i can’t believe this is how you talk about your own sister
There’s nothing awful about her comment, it’s a reality and that’s how life goes. She shouldn’t sugarcoat it for someone who can’t handle that truth.
i found it extremetly judgemental. it had nothing to do with me not being able to “handle the truth”.
there’s a difference between telling a story objectively and saying it in a way that implies she deserved it.
I fail to see how giving raw bone facts is judgemental.
And where exactly do you read the implication “she deserves it”?
It’s a “then” and “now” comparison.
You, aaaaa, are stuck in a haze of delusion if you don’t see the wisdom in her remarks.
@gg
i never implied that it’s not wise to learn from other people’s mistakes. what on earth are you talking about??
@ Micki
“But when she was with him she was very smug: “I’m happy. I’m with him. You don’t have anybody. We’ll get married one day. You will never get married.” She said this a lot and now? Everyone is married except her.” … maybe it’s just the way i interpreted this last part. it’s written down and obviously the tone in which something is said means a lot. it just seemed to me like it was rude. as it her sister being “smug” in the past towards her seems like, in her eyes, that she deserved not being married right now. that’s why i thought was rude.
btw, i won’t be commenting in this post again.
btw, just to clarify something about my previous comment. when i said “saying it in a way that implies she deserved it” i was referring to the final outcome i.e. not being married while everyone else was.
aaaaa, You said you couldn’t believe she was being “judgmental”. All she did was relay what happens when people insist on being with their abusers. This is what happens. A + B = C
Has nothing to do with judgment.
It seems to me that Annie is simply relaying a cautionary tale of how it went down with her own sister and wants to warn ladies to get out of an abusive relationship ASAP! I didn’t get any judgement, but I actually read more sadness that her sister was blinded by ‘love’.
Better put than I did. Well said.
Our family went through a very similar situation with my sister. If things were bad with one of her many abusive exes and we tried to care about her she was smug and gave us the finger. As soon as things went south she’d cry that she was the victim and that no one cared about her to help her out of the relationship. It was maddening.
Eventually I just threw my arms up and said “enjoy yourself” because she was so nasty to those who loved her and tried to help. I stopped caring about what happened to her.
you know, i was in an abusive relationship once. took in a lot of ugliness and gave back nothing but ugliness to the people who truly loved me.
thank god i had good people in my life who didn’t give up on me.
not trying to speak for all women, but after that, i don’t measure my self worth in terms of having a man or the inevitability of me getting married. i just want to be happy with who i am, on my own. if i end up bring that to a relationship then there will be nothing but good.
just be there for your sister. she’s your sister. almost feels like she’s my sister. maybe the abuse she suffered caused her to abuse you too.
Ya’ll Know what is gonna be Nobody’s Business?!
* When he beats the shit out of her again
*If She’s left to handle an abortion or std on her own
*When he Beats the shit out of her, again.
*A cut and run if she happens to get preggo and want to keep it.
So Yeah, good look hon!
she deserves everything that will come from this. fool me ones shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
You have never been in an abusive relationship, have you? Good for you.
Nobody ‘deserves’ to get the crap beaten out of them in a relationship.
Yes, she’s bringing this on herself and she’s likely heading towards another bust up, but she doesn’t deserve it. Yes, it’s frustrating to see her getting all weepy on Oprah and then telling people to get out of her business (as Bedhead mentioned) but no-one deserves to be thrown about and have that trust in a relationship abused.
Nobody “deserves” it – but they will “get it” because by going back they are “asking for it”. It’s simple science.
Contempt is not going to help her.
My post here implies no contempt. See all the other posts for that. I’m only saying that it’s fruitless to say she deserves it, because she will unfortunately get it whether she “deserves it” for going back to him or not. It’s going to happen. I hate to say. She’s making herself available for it in spades.
People are saying she deserves is only because they’re frustrated from watching this train wreck.
I now get what you meant.
It’s just that I’m so fed up with the ‘she deserves it’ attitutde and the phase ‘asking for it’ really pushed my buttons.
I’ve been through abuse myself, although by far not as bad as Rihanna and I get her delusion that he has changed. I feel for her.
At this point I give not two shits. I used to feel bad for her but she’s inviting another beating. I just hope she wakes up (probably not) before his violence turns fatal.
Well er… Nobody’s Business as they sing right?.. *sarcasm* Anyway, their relationship sell they know it hence why they’re playing the media and their fans with it…
Did you guys see the latest news? Fist Brown had a twitter brawl with a US comic woman, Jenny Johnson. Apparently she was sending him tweets for a while over the incident with Rihanna, he could’ve hit the block button but chose not to and it happened, Fist Brown snapped and threw a tweet punch! The amount of misogynistic things he told her were baffling and she kept winding him up with hilarious replies.
And after that he deleted his twitter account (or perhaps his publicist figured out his password and suspended the mess) and now his fandom is attacking Jenny Johnson all over the place.. It’s a funny mess!
This! I was coming on this post just to see if anyone mentioned the twitter situation. What a disgusting pig.
Rihanna isn’t “unapologetic” and she does care what her fans think, as much as her attitude tries to say otherwise. If there was enough backlash against her for going back, she wouldn’t have. her fans disgust me too.
There I think you’re wrong unfortunately. There was tremendous backlash and she went right back as soon as she thought the coast was clear. But you’re right about her fans – they disgust me as well.
Neither of these two give a rip what anybody thinks.
They are both trashy, talentless, ignorant, narcissists who have profited handsomely from a disgusting criminal assault. Neither is of any further interest to me and I wish that celebitchy would stop covering their idiotic antics.
Amen to every single thing you said.
Rihanna has been riding the gravy train of her abuse for a very long time, awful as it is to say that. She and Chris are a perfect pair and are together for a reason (both screwed up in the head).
100 percent! They are both such trash. I am sorry America has to know about them. Look at how she has her hand at her crotch. Make them go away.
Poor stupid girl..WATCH OUT CHRIS, dont get BURNED again, be carefull.We dont need to trip, Karruche, his ex even liked, Riri’s pic, on facebook!!Who are we to judge?
Ugh. So gross. Both of them.
Ah, well, she’s of legal age and has the right to live her life the way she likes it. It comes with the ultimate responsability to live it the way you’re not ashamed of it later though.
But as she says it’s none of my business I’ll take her by her word.
If she doesn’t see the need to change she won’t do it and noone else CAN do it for her. The good thing *sarcasm* is that she’s a great role model of how it is NOT done.
it seems to me that rihanna’s dad has some sort of mental hold over her.
when cb beat her she took photo(s) of it (most likely with intentions to use them against him). her dad publicly said he doesn’t blame cb blah, blah, blah (i don’t remember what he said exactly and i’m too lazy to search for it now). — then she didn’t testify against him in court and got back together with him for a while.
when her dad called her overweight, she began to get skinnier.
when he, more recently, mentioned something about cb being a good guy (or whatever [again, too lazy to research]), that was when she started developing a relationship with cb again (although it might not have been romantic in nature at the time).
that’s just my observation from what i’ve seen in the media. maybe i’m wrong
All I have to say is I hope nobody buys the teary, confessional album she puts out two months after he beats her again.
She has turned me off soo much.. :/ cannot stand her.
I broke down and decided to listen to the album preview of unapologetic…disliked every song on there…do you guys like her new album?
I’ve given up on her haha.
I have to admit I really like about 70 percent of the songs. My favorite is her piano ballad duet with Mikky Ekko, Stay.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-MiM-Ak8xc4&feature=related
Most victims and perpetrators in homicides are male
Male offender/Male victim 65.3%
Male offender/Female victim 22.7%
Female offender/Male victim 9.6%
Female offender/Female victim 2.4%
Both male and female offenders are more likely to target male victims than female victims.
(US Dept of Justice)
errrrm?????
They deserve each other.
In regards to the headline: she cares.
About everyone knowing they are back together, about how she does pot, about how sexy she is. She reminds me of that really immature girl we all knew in 7th grade who makes such a big stink about “living her life.” The girl that does everything so loudly that everyone can hear, and when they notice she gets all indignant about why everyone is in her business.
Over her.
Well, you pretty much nailed the whole barn. Well said.
I tried to have sympathy for the girl but I don’t. She used that incident to her advantage and to sell records. EVERYTIME she has an album coming out she starts talking and hanging with Chris again to get attention. They are perfect for each other. Let them be together so others don’t have to deal with them.
Sometimes it takes a looooong while for a person to learn his lesson. RIRI will learn her lesson….it’s going to take a few more punches and a few more ‘i will kill you’ by chris.
She’s an idiot, period.
You can’t save someone that doesn’t want to be saved. It’s sad but it’s her choice.
her only concern is attention any way she can grab it. maybe she should be checked for fleas (or shower), then she wouldn’t have to be scratching her snatch during ‘performances’.
these two skanks so deserve each other. let them rot in obscurity.
She’s going to regret it one day. Probably a long way down the road, but mark my words, she’ll regret it. I just hope he doesn’t kill her before then.
She is so gross.
Listen if Chris Brown didn’t bust her ass she would not have been so big…so that’s why she’s giving him thanks, to everything else these bitches do it was funny for a while but now i’m ray charles to it. #movingrightalong
Punching Bag #2
Poor with money. Both of them.
“dis n***A” Seriously?? thats the caption. What is wrong with her? i swear, she has the brain of a seagull
😆 mine! mine! mine! (Finding Nemo)
Yeah, I think she DOES care.
She cares about her CD sales and finding ways to keep the publics short attention span on her music. That’s why I refuse to get all up in arms about them- it’s what she wants. Still, this may not end well.
gross….#1-800-MERRY-MAIDS…the stains that must lie there
He looks like he passed out in his own vomit.
I think there are degrees of abuse out there and its hard to lump it all into the same category. I think what needs to be understood is that it seems ludicrous for her to go back to her abuser but thats only if you compare it to the some housewife getting beat every single day. Relationships are complex things and in Rihanna’s case the complexity of it is probably running over her common sense. That and she has probably hit him plenty of times. There would be no other reason why she would go back other than if it was normal for her or she felt like she wasnt just a mere victim of him. Like I said, its complex. Whatever it is though its not healthy that is for sure.
this is sad and gross… gross because she is gross and he is gross too. Sad because there are a bunch of young girls that want to be like her because she’s making begin an idiot look cool and fun. she seriously needs to re-think what she is doing because there is someone out there hanging on every word.
I totally agree. When she first started making music it was relativity innocent and nice but now she’s just a mess. She posts pictures of her smoking weed everywhere and there are girls out there who worship her. Disgusting.
They deserve each other.
She does not care and neither should anyone else. Her dalliances with Chris Brown seem to be an obsession with this site.
RiRi, I hate to tell you this but… your boyfriend is a woman-hating, closeted homosexual who will always throw violent tantrums. Buy hey, it’s your face right?
Honey Boo Boo is a better role model then her. Sorry to say it!
Not condoning violence or anything, but hopefully that shot was taken after she punched him and knocked his azz out.
Double post
its no body “bidness” cept everybodys!! wuts wrong with her? shes scary
I once knew a woman who went back with her abusive ex-boyfriend. He stabbed her to death outside of a stranger’s door and hung himself on someone’s swing set in their backyard. Don’t be that woman, Rihanna.
you know what…Ike and Tina Turner 2.0
That is all.
They love the attention more than they love each other.
Can we just put them away now??
Ohhhh well lookie here. All the females that were rooting for STDriri and throwing Cris B under the bus…where are you guys now.
Oh I see. Flip flopping like a pair of jelly bean flip flops.
idiot all over them both. I D I O T