'12
Last Saturday, Lady Gaga visited the Brentwood School in Los Angeles for a young women’s conference, which was titled “It’s Our Turn,” as a mystery guest. In doing so, Gaga spoke of her experiences with being bullied and suffering from bulimia as a teenager. However, Gaga doesn’t go into nearly as much detail as Diane Keaton in struggling with bulimia, which makes me skeptical as to whether Gaga was actually bulimic. If you told me that she suffered from, say, exercise bulimia (or anorexia) today, I’d believe it … simply for the simple fact that Gaga lost a significant amount of weight in between her first and second albums. However, I tend to view Gaga as having an (all-seeing) eye towards her self-crafted “Born This Way” image, and perhaps that makes me think that she’s less than sincere when painting a picture of her past. I could be entirely wrong though, so let’s have Gaga’s words speak for themselves:
On Being Bullied: “I started having trouble with girls in middle school. I always knew that I wanted to do something very career oriented, and I always wanted to be a musician. That alone set me apart. I had such strong convictions and I was pretty delusional, in the same way that I am now … in wanting to change the world and end bullying in America and do whatever I can to promote peace around the world. It might sound kind of silly coming from someone in red lipstick with a bunch of jewels on my jacke. But that’s just the way I have always been. Being excluded is painful.
“It wasn’t until my senior year in high school when I finally confronted my main bully. She was always kind of mean to me, but I was always trying to be nice to her. And I said, ‘I am always nice to you. What is your problem with me? Maybe if you just tell me, we can figure this out.’ And she said something like ‘Well, I just don’t know why you’re so serious about music.’”
On Being Bulimic: “I used to throw up all the time in high school. So I’m not that confident. And maybe it’s easier for me to talk about it now because I don’t do it anymore. I wanted to be a skinny little ballerina but I was a voluptuous little Italian girl whose dad had meatballs on the table every night. I used to come home and say, ‘Dad, why do you always give us this food? I need to be thin.’ And he’d say, ‘Eat your spaghetti.’ It’s really hard, But … you’ve got to talk to somebody about it.”
Weight Is Still A Struggle: “Every video I’m in, every magazine cover, they stretch you’ they make you perfect. It’s not real life. I’m gonna say this about girls: The dieting wars have got to stop. Everyone just knock it off. Because at the end of the day, it’s affecting kids your age. And it’s making girls sick.”
On Bulimia’s Effects: “It made my voice bad, so I had to stop. The acid on your vocal chords — it’s very bad. But for those of you who don’t sing, you maybe don’t have that excuse until it’s too late. It’s very dangerous.”
On Self Esteem: “I’m encouraging you to know what you’re worth. And know that no matter who has more money in class, who has more stuff, who has a country house – nobody is worth more than anybody else.”
[From Huffington Post]
I like that Gaga is admitting to her young, impressionable fans that even her own videos and photoshoots are merely an illusion. The thing about Gaga is that everything is supposedly an illusion, so I have mixed feelings on the stances she’s expressed within this interview. Naturally, I agree that bullying is an excruciating experience for any child or teenager, but it’s also something of of a rite of passage as long as no valid, long-lasting harm is occurring. Learning to get along with a-holes is a part of life, right? Yes, bullying is a problem, and I too used to live in fear of the school bus ride home during middle school, but it seems like a disproportionate amount of celebrities are making an issue of bullying merely to explain their own (adult) behavior away. In Gaga’s case, I fear that she’s using her so-called experiences with bullying to sell records. With that said, it kills me to think of my own child being bullied even though I know it’s probably just a matter of time before it’s time to deal with that matter.
In other Gaga news, she’s unleashed her try-hard male alter ego, Jo Calderone, once again (photos here) for the most recent installment of the “You and I” fashion series. One of the photos features Gaga’s (mostly SFW) taped-up boobs. Presumably, that’s a pointed joke towards those hermaphrodite rumors from a few years back because — let’s face it — Gaga doesn’t have anything new to show us.
Gaga in B/W outfit at Tokyo Narita International Airport on 12/23/11; Gaga in gold outfit departing for NYE 2012 Performance in Times Square on 12/31; Photos courtesy of WENN.

































































































































